tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-42489156253553916152024-03-20T05:14:31.450-04:00Life & Style by God's DesignMelanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-1079480723487546712009-08-11T09:36:00.013-04:002010-01-14T18:47:21.273-05:00Life Lines ~ Strength In The Strain ~ EDITED<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmB6-Tu4a3mYr4L7mtQ316u6d7Un08jdH7ER9DJKvDVpucd6e_DV78bQMbbKwrOYkDHG-_rUlrpD8GCcG-ODQjd1URDw2-1rRBslWZxNF9d6tYTjFT8uHW7iCfjg_6WPleVPZz3M7cW1Zl/s1600-h/short+hairblogpic.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5370997018432702578" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 194px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgmB6-Tu4a3mYr4L7mtQ316u6d7Un08jdH7ER9DJKvDVpucd6e_DV78bQMbbKwrOYkDHG-_rUlrpD8GCcG-ODQjd1URDw2-1rRBslWZxNF9d6tYTjFT8uHW7iCfjg_6WPleVPZz3M7cW1Zl/s320/short+hairblogpic.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">"Strength in the Strain"</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">by Melanie Dorsey</span></div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">The past 10 months have been <span style="color:#ff6600;"><strong>challenging</strong></span> for our family. Job loss. Job find. Traumatic accident. Drastic paycut blamed on the economy. Waiting. Schooling issues. More waiting. </span><br /><br /><div><br /><div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">So many of you could post your own list of <span style="color:#ff6600;"><strong>challenges </strong></span>that you have been facing as well.</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">But in the current of uncertainty I have to remember what I truly believe:<span style="color:#ff6600;"> Challenges are opportunities for growth.</span></span></div><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#336666;">I like this quote by John Maxwell: <em><span style="font-size:180%;">Change is inevitable; growth is optional.</span></em></span></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">In the midst of our challenges, will we look to see how the strain will ultimately be of benefit? Are we on the lookout for new buds of growth?</span></div><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">I've spent my early mornings reading from <em><strong>My Utmost for His Highest</strong></em> by Oswald Chambers. This particular devotion from August 2nd has had a profound effect on me. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#336666;">Chambers writes, <em>"God does not give us overcoming life: He gives us life as we overcome. The strain is the strength. If there is no strain, there is no strength."</em></span></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">When I read that quote, I consider the other activity I have been doing daily. I started working out using <em>The 30 Day Shred</em> dvd. In 3 different circuits of the workout I do resistance moves. Sometimes the resistance is my body weight and other moves incorporate 5 lb weights. I can see muscles! I have more tone. </span></div><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQPwD5fJNFnHCkykhIw9DMRLcPsKQ-0VMtQ2OmQxh-liSjs7CYREK3fSjmaKOqYRM-67Df1cQk-RUucPL3YS4tVB4S4SwwgxA4PZT95sH3STCNui1qo18z5xosxFy4E3cltxf6hWdI0rDi/s1600-h/weights.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5368717576674751858" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 150px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgQPwD5fJNFnHCkykhIw9DMRLcPsKQ-0VMtQ2OmQxh-liSjs7CYREK3fSjmaKOqYRM-67Df1cQk-RUucPL3YS4tVB4S4SwwgxA4PZT95sH3STCNui1qo18z5xosxFy4E3cltxf6hWdI0rDi/s200/weights.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="color:#336666;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;">I am stronger.</span></span></span></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="color:#336666;"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></span></div><br /><div><span style="color:#336666;"><span style="font-size:130%;">In the strain of resistance I have developed strength. It is not an <em>invisible, intangible </em>strength. With the increase in strength there is a <strong>noticeable</strong> ease of stooping and rising, in carrying and in my level of endurance.</span></span></div><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">Psalm 29:11 tells us, <em>"The Lord will give strength to His people; The Lord will bless His people with peace."</em></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">I consider that God allows certain trials, certain challenges, into our lives as a means of strengthening us. Perhaps the <em>strength we acheive in the strain</em> comes from resisting the temptation to simply quit. To give up on <em>pushing through the pressure of the weight </em>is to give up on what is sure to be the result ~ growth.</span></div><br /><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">As I push my body up from the floor in the strain of push-ups, and as I follow the trainer's instructions for pressing the 5 lb weights, the goal is not to go about my day doing push-ups nor is it to carry around 10 extra pounds. </span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">No, the goal is to strengthen me to do real life. </span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">James 1:2-4 instructs us thusly, <em>"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.. But let <strong>patience have its perfect work</strong>, that you may be <strong>perfect and complete</strong>, lacking nothing."</em></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">You see, the purpose of my workouts is not so I can do push-ups and lift weights. The <strong>purpose</strong> of my workouts is so that I am made stronger and healthier for life beyond my workouts. </span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">When James writes that we may be perfect and complete, <em><strong>perfect </strong></em>carries the idea of being fully developed or mature. <em><strong>Complete</strong></em> underscores the thought of fullness and wholeness. </span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">To <em>count it all joy </em>is not a giddy, emotional reaction rather it is a deliberate appraisal to see the strain from God's perspective. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;">The strain, the trial, the challenge results in the strength.</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;"><em><strong>"The strain is the strength."</strong></em></span></div><div><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#336666;"></span></em></strong></div><div><span style="color:#ff0000;">EDITED 1/14/09~</span></div><div><span style="color:#ff0000;">At the end of August my 12 year old son, Andrew Christopher Dorsey, was diagnosed with brain cancer. He passed from this earth to heaven on December 15. He is with Jesus and he is in our future! Currently I am trying to gain my strength again.</span></div></div></div></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-196231626784128942009-07-31T12:47:00.006-04:002009-08-04T17:20:22.369-04:00Life Lines "Mamaw Was a Firefighter"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ6fZqQJWLyJJIdk42r3b_XH0VI3nh7q5KEtjxwrHYcsvcPbW8zMRylfqXcPerKivy1kAq1THUEdxqpBvGstj-9MgxZhoiP6Vnlc8C6SVmTheHxYb1b9I5JuO6bpePFWKBCYbeWTogEScV/s1600-h/%2316+md+tilt.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364669322073937410" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 224px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgJ6fZqQJWLyJJIdk42r3b_XH0VI3nh7q5KEtjxwrHYcsvcPbW8zMRylfqXcPerKivy1kAq1THUEdxqpBvGstj-9MgxZhoiP6Vnlc8C6SVmTheHxYb1b9I5JuO6bpePFWKBCYbeWTogEScV/s320/%2316+md+tilt.jpg" border="0" /></a> <span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">My Mamaw was a firefighter.<br /></span></strong><br />In her 90’s, and legally blind, Mamie Parker Williams,<em> “Mamaw Williams”</em> to me, became an honorary member of her community's volunteer fire department. Still independent and living alone she grabbed her backyard garden hose to extinguish a fire in her outbuilding. A neighbor called the fire department and they took over in putting out the fire. Mamaw made the paper that week! </span><span style="font-size:130%;"></span><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1FIx7QYkvpEniKC-0ldrxToGvyP7J9Gi9OTxnIKpZjjDyTcQjC8W3kink9SXgIrnpGSE5a1M0pGfx-3UL_aVf9N1kPgwm__vFBcxBy6kN4x3GBflC359LUDTAH4KLRsbqCW0VZVLaMQ5t/s1600-h/flame.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364668646321055218" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 166px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1FIx7QYkvpEniKC-0ldrxToGvyP7J9Gi9OTxnIKpZjjDyTcQjC8W3kink9SXgIrnpGSE5a1M0pGfx-3UL_aVf9N1kPgwm__vFBcxBy6kN4x3GBflC359LUDTAH4KLRsbqCW0VZVLaMQ5t/s200/flame.jpg" border="0" /></a></span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg1FIx7QYkvpEniKC-0ldrxToGvyP7J9Gi9OTxnIKpZjjDyTcQjC8W3kink9SXgIrnpGSE5a1M0pGfx-3UL_aVf9N1kPgwm__vFBcxBy6kN4x3GBflC359LUDTAH4KLRsbqCW0VZVLaMQ5t/s1600-h/flame.jpg"></a></p></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><div><br /><br />But long before Mamie wielded the water hose, she was wielding the Word. As a young woman Mamie accepted the call to ministry. Mamie taught Sunday School, played the organ and prayed with people. In her book, My Journey Home, she wrote, <em>“I was always interested in missions and orphans. I taught my class with an emphasis on these two ministries as well. Often we would raise money to send to the church headquarters for missionaries and the orphanage.”</em><br /><br />Her words are recorded in a national church publication, dated June 5, 1920, <em>“My heart’s desire is to be a true and shining light for my Savior and lead lost souls to Him. I realize that the coming of Christ will not be long and Oh! How my heart aches for those that are lost. I want the power of God so that I can tell the lost world more about our precious Savior.”</em><br /><br /><span style="color:#000099;">Mamie meets the General.<br /></span><br />In 1923 Mamie met a young preacher, General Grant Williams (his real name).<br />Arrested in 1921 for disturbing the peace while preaching on a front porch, a friend, knowledgeable in the law, advised him to plead guilty to the charge.<em> Papaw</em> pled guilty and the judge ordered Grant to pay a small fine. Realizing that he did not have the money and would have to go to jail, the judge passed around a hat in the courtroom to collect the money for the fine!<br /><br />Mamie and Grant got married and spent the rest of their lives together in ministry.<br />I remember well the summer vacations and Christmas visits when all of the family members who had gathered to visit in Mamaw’s and Papaw’s living room would kneel in prayer. Mamaw was always the most vocal, her voice rising above the rest.<br />She prayed. She cried. She laughed. Mamaw had a way of <em>“praying through.”<br /></em>And at the age of 103, she went to meet the one<em> "for whom her passion burned." </em></div><div><em></em></div><div></div><div><span style="color:#ff6600;">Yes, Mamaw was a firefighter.</span><span style="font-size:100%;"> </span>She fanned the fire of desire in my life for Jesus.</div><div>It was an occupational hazard.<br /></div></span><div></div><div></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-75612732452675606992009-07-15T14:47:00.007-04:002009-07-16T11:18:40.569-04:00Style File - Laying Your Wardrobe Foundation<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8zjNrDPu3Yhj1Mu3xcCMk6iHwBq6b2XJbKdj4v0sqWq73l-mAuKabG-aOh-sd7cXqBnjfawdSwDrbugF94UpMh7ZHhNArgaBt5bVM_WN-UMspdze0kjjlbCme4bUKQoKzsfGRA1WhUP58/s1600-h/Alisa+n+Mel+011.bmp"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358761884157402178" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg8zjNrDPu3Yhj1Mu3xcCMk6iHwBq6b2XJbKdj4v0sqWq73l-mAuKabG-aOh-sd7cXqBnjfawdSwDrbugF94UpMh7ZHhNArgaBt5bVM_WN-UMspdze0kjjlbCme4bUKQoKzsfGRA1WhUP58/s320/Alisa+n+Mel+011.bmp" /></a><br /><br /><div align="justify">In Proverbs, the Word tell us about this infamous example of womanhood. Although we don't know her name, she is often referred to simply as the Proverbs 31 woman. I have often thought about this woman. I've wondered what she looked like and what her name might have been. Clearly, of all the virtuous and capable women in the world, she surpassed them all. Verse 22 tells us that "<em><span style="color:#339999;"><strong>She makes her own bedspreads. She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns."</strong></span></em></div><div align="justify"><strong>I love that verse!</strong> That verse speaks to me. You see for many years I felt that the talents and abilities that my Father had given me in the area of interior design and fashion were insignificant in the kingdom but one day this verse came alive to me. I realized that if this virtuous woman of Proverbs spent time and attention on her clothing and home decor, then I didn't need to feel quilty because of the desire I had in my heart to design - interiors and wardrobes. My hope is that I can offer you some practical advice and tips on creating beauty within your home and style within your wardrobe. We know that real beauty comes from within and I want to help reflect what's inside of you on the outside of you.</div><div align="justify">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</div><div align="justify">The last time I posted a <strong><span style="color:#339999;">Style File</span></strong>, I spent time talking about how to edit your wardrobe. Today, I want to spend some time sharing some tips on laying the foundation for your wardrobe. The foundation of your wardrobe is built around those essential pieces that go with almost anything. These key pieces NEVER go out of style and are always chic. I like to think of these pieces as a blank canvas on which I can layer my own style by way of accessories.</div><div align="justify"></div><div align="justify">Here I want to give you a workable list of the Top 10 pieces that every stylish woman must have in her closet:</div><ol><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">The Little Black Dress (LBD)</span></em></strong> - Legend tells us that Coco Chanel created the first LBD, however long before Coco Chanel debuted her version, women everywhere had found the versatile, comfortable and practical garment to be a must-have. Every woman needs a flattering version of the Little Black Dress hanging in her closet. It makes you look endlessly elegant. It never competes with you but always lets you shine. You can dress it up or dress it down. And let's not forget the slimming effect.</div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">A classic, tailored, White Shirt</span></em></strong> - The white shirt has been called the key to American style. It's the perfect pairing with your 9 to 5 business suit or your favorite jeans. It's simple. It's chic. It's forever practical and unpretentious. When I was working in the corporate world my favorite office attire was a classic white shirt, pearl choker, navy or black trousers and any one of my MANY jackets. It's effortless. Now that I'm out of the corporate arena, the white shirt and a classic cut jean or kahki pants is my go-to wardrobe.</div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">Cashmere cardigan or sweater</span></em></strong> - There is nothing more luxe than donning cashmere. No matter the weather, cashmere can be worn for any kind of occasion. I used to wonder what all the fuss was about but the first time I slipped on a cashmere sweater, I was hooked. Try a cashmere cardigan in a neutral shade over a dress, a tee, a button-down, or wear it alone. A turtle neck or sweater is great with jeans, skirts or pants.</div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">Trench Coat - preferrably Tan</span></em></strong>. Trench coats are the best. The add instant mystery and go with almost everything. If you need to dash out and the rain is pouring down, a classic trench coat will keep you dry as well as looking stylish. Even if you live in a warmer climate, having a trench coat in a lightweight fabric is a must. Designer Michael Kors is quoted as saying, "Put on a trench, you're suddently Audrey Hepburn walking along the Seine." </div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">Dark Washed Denim Jeans</span></em></strong> - It has been said that jeans are the most perfect clothing item ever invented. The majority of Americans own between 4-6 pairs of jeans! They are practical, simple, stylish and elegant. Finding a cut and style that flatters you is worth a day in the mall and the hassels of the dressing room. A dark wash is your best bet. They can go from the office to dinner out, from Saturday at home to a shopping trip with your BFF. Any outfit built around the jean seems more relaxed, more practical and unassuming than it would feel if you substituted black trousers for the jean.</div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">A classic Men's-style Watch</span></em></strong> - Women's watches are rather trendy and tend to change often but the allure of a classic men's-style watch will never dim. There's just something timeless about a classic, round-face, wrist watch. (No pun intended.) Seeing a man's watch on the elegant wrist of a women is ultra flattering. Finding a style that looks good can be a little bit of a search so I recommend going for a style with a classic leather strap.</div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">Diamonds</span></em></strong> - okay, quality fakes will do if your budget does not allow you to splurge at this time. You just can't go wrong with diamonds. A simply elegant pair of stud earrings or a classic tennis bracelet is perfect for anytime, day or night. No matter the season, diamonds are appropriate for both casual and dressy attire.</div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">Flats</span></em></strong> - Now, let me start by saying that EVEN if you are on the short side (like me), there will come a time when you MUST give your heels the boot for practicality. Thank God those times are few and far between for this 5 foot, nothing girl. Nothing looks more ridiculous than a girl trying to wear high-heels on terrain that is best navigated in flats. Find yourself a stylish pair that with go with your favorite jeans, pants and skirts and wear them with pride!</div></li><li><div align="justify"><span style="color:#339999;"><em><strong>A classic high-heel pump or sling-back</strong></em></span> - my choice is a classic black. It's the go-to shoe. I wear mine with suits, my LBD, flared jeans and trousers. I would be lost without my black sling-back. If you are short, I recommend opting for a sling-back instead of a closed in pump. Trust me - it will make your legs look longer. I also recommend buying two or even three pair if you find a style that feels great on your feet and flatters your foot. Remember, classics never go out of style and this one basic will be used over and over again! </div></li><li><div align="justify"><strong><em><span style="color:#339999;">A GREAT Bag</span></em></strong> - Okay, I will admit it. My name is Alisa and I'm a Purse-aholic! Okay, enough said. The BAG - it's the one wardrobe piece where you can have fun. Lots and lots of fun! But just like the classic high-heel pump, a stylish lady needs three great bags that will carry her through every occasion. They are a Tote or Shoulder Bag. A Clutch. A medium-sized Handbag maybe one with a chain-link strap. The tote is for daytime and will carry almost everything. The clutch is for nighttime and will carry almost nothing. The handbag falls somewhere in between. Did you know that the handbag only became a female accessory at the beginning of the 1900s? Before then, only men carried a purse. Once ladies began to venture out on their own, the handbag became a symbol of independence. </div></li></ol><p align="justify">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</p><p align="justify">When building the foundation of your wardrobe, the key to buying these pieces are to buy as "classic" as possible - nothing to bright, trendy or embellished. You can find these 10 items in all price ranges and qualities. Buy the best you can afford as these items will compose your blank canvas for years to come.</p><p align="justify"><span style="color:#000000;">Until I see you again,</span></p><p align="justify"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><em><strong>Happy Shopping!</strong></em></span></p><p align="justify"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><em><strong>~Alisa </strong></em></span></p><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff6600;">Tampa Bay, we're coming your way! </span></div><div align="justify"><span style="color:#ff6600;">Life & Style By God's Design Women's Conference Sept. 11- 12 ~ For more information go <a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/2009/07/life-style-womens-conference-coming-to.html">HERE.</a></span><br /><br /></div><div align="justify"></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-74593855088458152212009-07-14T10:28:00.009-04:002009-07-15T21:48:35.915-04:00Life & Style Women's Conference Coming to Tampa Bay<div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrSYARiijteMkmy7G4gqQiOLJe7E2WpMlaLgmg8Tcf_ZsZghf41Ltp5BnkBaMIczFX-u9Dxq-MZChraBInIv3hw4Wr6ZuJQaTz5w3YiY4JtRfBMolX9HwdSbUiG3UJgGUvkDAVAC3e5L_j/s1600-h/Alisa+n+Mel+in+aqua.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358322994893062882" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 229px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgrSYARiijteMkmy7G4gqQiOLJe7E2WpMlaLgmg8Tcf_ZsZghf41Ltp5BnkBaMIczFX-u9Dxq-MZChraBInIv3hw4Wr6ZuJQaTz5w3YiY4JtRfBMolX9HwdSbUiG3UJgGUvkDAVAC3e5L_j/s320/Alisa+n+Mel+in+aqua.jpg" border="0" /></a> <span style="color:#339999;"><em>Life & Style</em> <strong>By God's Design</strong> is coming to Tampa Bay in September!</span> </div><span style="color:#ff6600;">The Women's Ministry Department of Harvest Temple Church of God in Largo, FL, is hosting a <em>Life & Style</em> Women's Conference September 11 & 12, '09.</span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;"><strong>*</strong></span><br /><br /><span style="color:#339999;">Discover your <strong>D.E.S.IG.N.</strong> with <em>Life & Style</em> Coaches Alisa Lucas-Brown and Melanie Dorsey. <em>Life & Style</em> topics speak to the spirit and heart of a woman, inspiring her to live and style her life according to the Master's Plan.</span><br /><br /><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Life & Style Ministries offers real-life solutions for today's woman and home.</span></em> </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff6600;"><strong>Sessions include:</strong></span></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Discover Your Design (personal & decor/fashion)</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Escaping Eve</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Salt - A Lifestyle Designed by God</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Ignite Your Fire</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Guard Your Heart</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Noble Things</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</span></strong></div><br /><div align="center">For more information email us @ <a href="mailto:mylifeandstyle@aol.com">mylifeandstyle@aol.com</a> or call Patty @ (727) 595-2034.</div><div align="center">The $28 registration fee includes catered lunch & gift bag</div><div align="center">Late registration after 8/16 is $35 and includes lunch but no gift bag.</div><div align="center"><strong>Conference Date & Time</strong></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff0000;"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;">*</span>September 11, Friday 7 - 9 p.m. & September 12, Saturday 9 a.m. - 4 p.m.</strong></span></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;">Harvest Temple</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;">13301 Walsingham Road Largo, FL 33774</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;">(727) 595-2034</span></strong> </div><div align="center"></div><p align="center"><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='320' height='266' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dwIu756iuklXuh1-8dryPY3g0ypAHOI9os_20N6_1UOnKioagMBjcrv4QEWO3MtisjEB2P06y7rW_bOFT67TQ' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe></p><p></p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-3277776369405057722009-07-10T15:03:00.008-04:002009-07-10T15:27:46.803-04:00Life Lines ~ "3 S's to Success"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3yVKX9esOEpjmK0JH8I3poFTJkPF99SNmHUZ5Buc5LCN5JGTG18Up4Mt2rAMyRnMM1OIW19jb-VVw1Z52KjhtEuGaT4C_vav6br76KW-axfOPB10E9cewcYcnSTpXxF31cGPMP_1G7q4q/s1600-h/%234md+tilt.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356911043901565298" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3yVKX9esOEpjmK0JH8I3poFTJkPF99SNmHUZ5Buc5LCN5JGTG18Up4Mt2rAMyRnMM1OIW19jb-VVw1Z52KjhtEuGaT4C_vav6br76KW-axfOPB10E9cewcYcnSTpXxF31cGPMP_1G7q4q/s320/%234md+tilt.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong>“3 S’s to Success”<br /></strong></span><em>A Wife’s Guide to Helping Her Husband Gain the Winning Edge</em></span></span></div><span style="font-size:130%;"><div align="center"><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:100%;">by Melanie J. Dorsey</span><br /></span></div><div align="left"><br /><span style="color:#000099;">Would you like to know how you can help your husband win at <em>life, love</em> and<em> lunch</em>? There are 3 simple steps you can begin TODAY that will give your husband the winning edge.<br />The issues of life and love are obvious but, what you ask, does<em> “lunch”</em> have to do with anything?<br /><em>“Lunch”</em> refers to your husband’s job. Often in business, more is accomplished over a lunch or dinner meeting, than in a memo, fax or phone call. Besides, I like alliteration, so<em> “lunch”</em> it is!<br /><br />So what’s the secret to your husband’s success? <em>You</em> are!<br />Recently I was reading through Proverbs 31, starting with verse 10:<em> “Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies.” </em><br />Yes, I am quite familiar with that verse as it is often the theme of events from Mother’s Day to Ladies’ Luncheons. However, it is verse 11 that leapt off the page and smacked me in the head: <em>“The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain.”</em><br />I carefully read it over and again. Yea, I even meditated upon it. As a wife who loves my husband, I certainly want him to lack nothing and gain all God has available for him. And apparently I have a huge part to play in that plan unfolding. As I pondered the truth of verse 11, the <em>“3 S’s to Success”</em> began to formulate.<br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">S#1</span></strong> Shhhhh…Keep his confidences. This means that those things that my husband confides in me are meant for me and me only. He is more likely to open up about his “stuff” if he knows that I will not share it with anyone else.<br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">S#2</span></strong> Sis Boom Bah! Be his number #1 fan. Since you married him, he must be <em>exploding</em> with good qualities. Why not remind him of them from time to time? You’ll build his confidence and make him glad he chose <em>you</em>!<br /><br /><br /><strong><span style="font-size:180%;">S#3</span></strong> Support him in being his best in a “no nag” kind of way. <em>“Support”</em> means to hold up or add strength to. You don’t need a definition of<em> “nag.”</em> We wives know full well what <em>that</em> means. We can do it with our eyes closed and one hand behind our back! If your current way of <em>supporting </em>your husband is not working, pray about a strategy that <em>will </em>work. A humble prayer for a Holy plan is an<em> answered</em> prayer.<br /><br />When your husband feels safe with you, his chances of success skyrocket! Even when the issues of <em>“life, love and lunch”</em> don’t go according to his plan, he’ll still feel like a <em>winner</em> with a wife like you! And that’s a win~win situation. </span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></div><div align="left"><span style="font-size:100%;color:#000099;">I'd love to hear how you have incorporated one of the "S's" to bless your husband. Leave a comment to encourage all of us wives on the same path!</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:100%;">(If you don't have a blog, simply leave your comment "anonymously.")</span></span></div><div align="left"><span style="font-size:100%;color:#000099;">Don't forget, I'm giving away 2 copies of <em>The Husband Project </em>by Kathi Lipp. Go <a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/2009/07/win-husband-project-book.html"><span style="color:#ff6600;">HERE</span></a> for more information.</span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#000099;"><em><span style="font-size:100%;color:#000066;">Melanie</span></em><br /></div></span></span>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-79587536600039060072009-07-09T11:33:00.006-04:002009-07-09T11:48:03.337-04:00Win "The Husband Project" book!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWxbwqD2za5r6fOtil34dc4se9Fdzv2b-ynhaEjcJPf1izzGKOQ9L2uQDU3dGMVgmoAQ-bFvwyLxeH2kz25uCyH60Fj06GowqWKgwsy0S2QB6hnLhwk8UouizugGUD5AKxZxMCMjSavU0E/s1600-h/%2322+md.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 266px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356486778283766978" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWxbwqD2za5r6fOtil34dc4se9Fdzv2b-ynhaEjcJPf1izzGKOQ9L2uQDU3dGMVgmoAQ-bFvwyLxeH2kz25uCyH60Fj06GowqWKgwsy0S2QB6hnLhwk8UouizugGUD5AKxZxMCMjSavU0E/s400/%2322+md.jpg" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Would you like to take your marriage from <em>"ordinary to amazing in just 21 days"?</em></span><br /></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Even if you have a <span style="color:#000099;">GREAT</span> marriage, there's always room for improvement, right?</span></div><br /><div><br /></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">Go <a href="http://bellamella-melanie.blogspot.com/2009/07/win-husband-project.html"><span style="color:#330033;">HERE</span></a> to see how you can win <em>"The Husband Project" </em>by Kathi Lipp. I have 2 copies that Kathi sent me to give away. How great is that?!</span></div><br /><p><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 100px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 141px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356484917079966834" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgukw3kPSl2cB6rnaD2uk_GNrTc0wdhvEoZ8sxGYrRlPvID2ocN1g4tUX3Fp-e4uIhDceuGiyghtymsub26jFL5BMnf3On1w4dsUz4ZE4m4csc_0yBldcAoxvv0Jbwngfrm0ZLD7hx-Foy-/s400/husband+project+book+image.jpg" /><span style="font-size:130%;">Even if you don't win, why not follow me <a href="http://bellamella-melanie.blogspot.com/"><span style="color:#6600cc;">HERE</span></a> to do the 5 Day Mini Project? You'll get all the information you need to play along and really roll your husband's socks up and down!</span></p><br /><p><span style="font-size:130%;">And...come back here later for my article on <em><span style="color:#ff6600;"><strong>"Helping Your Husband Gain the Winning Edge."</strong></span></em></span></p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-84502500646071408552009-07-01T08:57:00.014-04:002009-07-01T14:31:16.831-04:00Life Lines ~ THANKS & PRAISE<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg75NaZPxyCxj3-aNvT_6hceSg0UXhsD_vFRUCvDwnZ0wog8NozQN67oGD3Z1ZdBJ-udKZweejYrq-kFJtYWP-e8s_AOZArKyBjb7F2Lx2YB0peeBG6bSQW8JNZhHFwWw0OlkzXPVIHDNDk/s1600-h/mel+thankful+for+the+little+things.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 194px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5353492006122465794" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg75NaZPxyCxj3-aNvT_6hceSg0UXhsD_vFRUCvDwnZ0wog8NozQN67oGD3Z1ZdBJ-udKZweejYrq-kFJtYWP-e8s_AOZArKyBjb7F2Lx2YB0peeBG6bSQW8JNZhHFwWw0OlkzXPVIHDNDk/s320/mel+thankful+for+the+little+things.JPG" /></a><span style="font-size:180%;color:#000099;">It seems that the theme for my week has been PRAISE. My heart and mind have been parked on PRAISE & THANKS to God!</span><br /><br /><div><div><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:130%;">This scripture in particular has been on my mind: <em>"Oh, that men would give thanks to the LORD for His goodness, And for His wonderful works to the children of men!" (Psalm 107:8 NKJV)</em></span></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">The KJV uses "praise" in place of "thanks." Either way, thanksgiving and praise go hand in hand. Regardless of which you offer first, the other naturally follows! Try it. You'll see what I mean.</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:180%;"></span></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Many people are facing major decisions at this point in their lives. Of course, life is full of major DECISIONS. If you haven't had to make one, it just means you haven't lived very long. I just celebrated another birthday and I can tell you, I've lived long enough to have made a few major decisions! But like many of you, my husband and I are facing more ~ some of which will have to be made soon. Very soon.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:180%;color:#000099;">I believe the reason the Spirit of God has placed the theme of PRAISE on my heart is because offering THANKS & PRAISE, regardless of your circumstances, prepares your heart to receive from God. To offer thanks & praise is a choice. A DECISION. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><strong>Consider these aspects of praise.</strong></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">1 Chronicles 23:30 <em>"...to stand every morning to thank and <strong>praise </strong>the LORD, and likewise at evening..."</em></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><strong>praise - </strong><em>halal</em> (hah-<em>lahl)</em> Strong's #1984: To praise, to thank; rejoice, boast about someone. <em>Halal </em>is the root from which "hallelujah" is formed.</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Psalm 63:3 <em>"Because Your lovingkindness is better than life, My lips shall <strong>praise</strong> You."</em></span></span></div><div><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong>praise - </strong><em>shabach </em>(shah-<em>vahch) </em>Strong's #7623: To commend, praise; to adore; to glory in something; to still, quiet, or pacify someone. <em>Shabach </em>goes in two directions, "praising" and "calming." </span></span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Psalm 100:4 - <em>"Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, And into His courts with</em> <strong>praise</strong><em>."</em></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><strong>praise - </strong><em>tehillah </em>(te-hil-<em>lah) </em>Strong's #8416: A celebration, a lauding of someone praise-worthy; the praise or exaltation of God; praises, songs of admiration.</span></div><br /><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Ephesians 1:6 - <em>"...to the <strong>praise</strong> of the glory of His grace, by which He made us accepted in the Beloved."</em></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><strong>praise - </strong><em>epainos (ep</em>-ahee-noss) Strong's #1868: Approbation, commendation, approval, praise. <em>Epainos </em>expresses not only praise for what God does for us, but also for who He is, recognizing His glory.</span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">No matter what is going on in your life at this moment, offer THANKS & PRAISE to Him alone in whom you live and move and have your being.</span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">My Prayer: </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><em>"Abba Father, </em></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><em>Your Word tells me, 'You are holy, enthroned in the praises of Israel.'</em></span></div><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Despite mounting opposition, I choose to offer You thanksgiving & praise. I thank you for Who You are, for What You do, for how You choose to move in my life and that of my family. It is You who puts the boundaries in place. It is You who shakes the earth out of its place and its pillars tremble. It is You I trust with my life. </span></em></div><br /><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">I confess I do not always readily offer up praise & thanks to You. Help me to have a quick tongue to speak of Your goodness and your faithfulness. Assist me in forming the words to bless You and exalt You. Form in me a heart of worship, a spirit of joy and a mind to think on Your most excellent ways.</span></em></div><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span></em></div><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Today, LORD, I thank YOU. I praise YOU. I worship YOU.</span></em></div><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">In the Name of Jesus, I pray.</span></em></div><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">AMEN."</span></em></div><div></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span></div><div><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><strong>May your heart be full of thanks and your mouth filled with praise,</strong></span></div><div><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><strong>Melanie</strong></span></em></div></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-52114015758272128642009-06-19T09:02:00.006-04:002009-06-19T11:07:25.908-04:00Life Lines ~ He Loves Me!<div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3Q-sGwZ1S4Sgak_cA83htKCMDBl87MaAEdlav9IWgA7H4lAiIh6J_0bm_ns8B2w4EIf31-DGc7ZGS-NGTC-9JHwedDStU6qUTm7uYPVHeYTUQPKFgFNNvwZE1-gmt9uapZEeWLqMQ5Y2N/s1600-h/Copy+(2)+of+%2314+md+fr.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 222px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5349025149392185266" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi3Q-sGwZ1S4Sgak_cA83htKCMDBl87MaAEdlav9IWgA7H4lAiIh6J_0bm_ns8B2w4EIf31-DGc7ZGS-NGTC-9JHwedDStU6qUTm7uYPVHeYTUQPKFgFNNvwZE1-gmt9uapZEeWLqMQ5Y2N/s320/Copy+(2)+of+%2314+md+fr.jpg" /></a><br /><span style="color:#000099;"><em>"He Loves Me!"</em><br />(<span style="font-size:85%;color:#333333;">Excerpted from ~</span> </span><span style="color:#000099;"><em>Wings to Soar</em> by Melanie Dorsey<em>)</em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#000099;"><em>~~~<br /></div></em></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">One of the most liberating moments for me came when a friend spoke into my life and told me there was nothing I could do to make God love me any more or any less. At first I doubted the validity of that statement but as I pondered it and let that truth saturate my heart and mind, it offered a wellspring of freedom and joy. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">The liberation of my mind and heart was not accomplished overnight. Nevertheless, over time my thinking shifted, creating a new paradigm which in turn resulted in a softer, more pliable heart. I finally began to understand that a great deal of my hard work and effort toward doing good things was not always motivated out of a heart of love but from a place of fear. </span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"><br />My primary motivation for serving God had been to earn His approval. I was afraid that I might disappoint God and the prospect of disappointing Him was so unacceptable to me that I served Him from that mindset. Not until I finally began to grasp the depth of God’s love for me (for ME!), did I at long last relax in that love. I could breathe deeply and know that He loved me whether I performed successfully, failed miserably or, and this is key, whether I simply <em>was</em>. </span><br /></span><p><span style="color:#333333;">Do you find yourself struggling with God's love for you? I believe that it is not until you understand that if there had only been <em>you,</em> God would <em>still</em> have sent His only begotten Son and Christ would <em>still</em> have willingly given His life for you. Just for <em>you</em>! Know it. Believe it. There is freedom in truth.</span></p><em><span style="color:#000066;"><strong>"And we have known and believed the love that God has for us. God is love, and he who abides in love abides in God, and God in him" 1 John 4:16.</strong></span></em><br /><br /><em><span style="color:#000099;">Lovingly Yours,</span></em><br /><em><span style="color:#000099;">Melanie</span></em>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-37993861774480516142009-06-12T11:10:00.004-04:002009-06-12T12:32:02.783-04:00Style File - How to Edit<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoS6q3SUXadjbstp10CYx8OkEJT7H-daU8FI5V6fwOKsg7dOtZSiQjyPSxo_qU98WGAFx1khY7HDDgaAQKykc8AFN78_UwR9VOOPNUL449ZqmAGDozvY-zlWsqDxSJGB7NmjqbMJeGQKPM/s1600-h/Alisa+Tilt+left.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5346459245777424162" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 213px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgoS6q3SUXadjbstp10CYx8OkEJT7H-daU8FI5V6fwOKsg7dOtZSiQjyPSxo_qU98WGAFx1khY7HDDgaAQKykc8AFN78_UwR9VOOPNUL449ZqmAGDozvY-zlWsqDxSJGB7NmjqbMJeGQKPM/s320/Alisa+Tilt+left.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div align="justify">In my last post I listed the basics that every stylish woman has in common. Today, I want to deal with the practical fundamentals of editing your wardrobe. Do you ever spontaneously make a purchase only to get the item home and decide it looks terrible on you? This use to happen to me all the time. So, I made a self rule to never buy anything unless I first try it on at the store. Well, that helped but I was still finding myself growing a collection of garmets that just didn't fit my style, my shape or my taste. </div><br /><div align="justify">Learning to EDIT is the most important basic when it comes to your wardrobe. Us ladies know when something looks good on us. We feel pretty, confident, comfortable and pulled together. On the other hand, when we wear something that doesn't make us feel this way, then we are self-conscience, uncomfortable and unsure. Let's face it - when we look our best, we feel our best. The last thing I want to be concerned with is what I am wearing! </div><div align="justify">I bet your closet is bursting at the seams, but how many items in there do you wear? How many of the outfits in your closet actually make you feel good? How many times have you opened your closet, gazed inside and said "I have nothing to wear"! If your schedule is as hectic as mine, then the last thing you want to waste time on, is pulling together an outfit only to decide, you have to change. Do yourself a favor - EDIT YOUR CLOSET! Then edit your shopping habits. </div><div align="center"><span style="color:#3366ff;"><strong>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</strong></span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#3366ff;"><strong>Rule #1 - Throw out what you don't wear and what doesn't look good on you. Okay, don't throw it away, just give it to a charity. Pick a weekend and go through every garment hanging in your closet. Try it on. Does it fit you? Does it make you feel pretty? Do you look your best? If not, toss it in the Goodwill box. If so, keep it. Don't hang on to ANYTHING you haven't worn in a year or longer. And DON'T keep any clothing for sentimental reasons (except your wedding dress and put that in storage). Be ruthless when you edit. Don't clutter your closet with items that you think are beautiful but you never wear. Pass them on to someone who will actually get some use out of them. Make your self a deal - for every 20 pieces you give away, you get to buy 1 piece that makes you look your best.</strong></span></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;">Rule #2 - Buy the right size and don't pay attention to size labels. If you are a size 10, don't buy an 8. Never buy clothes because you plan to diet and lose weight. Many designers and manufacturers of clothing use different cuts and patterns thus giving us different "fits". I have everything from a size 6 to a size 10 in my closet that I currently wear. The fit is the key. I would much rather buy the size that flatters, than to buy a size because of a number on the label. </span></strong></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#3366ff;"><strong>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</strong></span></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;">Rule #3 - Don't buy something just because it's a good deal or it's on sale. If you pay $80 for something that was originally $300, you haven't saved money or scored a deal unless you actually wear it! If it hangs in your closet, you just wasted $80! I love to shop sales and clearance. My motto is NEVER PAY FULL PRICE! But, when shopping sales, apply the same strict editing to what you buy as you use for editing your closet.</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;">Rule #4 - Don't buy something just because it's the trend. If it doesn't look good on you, pass it up! Let someone else sport that trend - you wear only those things that make you look your best! Don't worry if it's the hottest, latest styles. Wear what suits you. Wear what makes you feel comfortable, pulled together and pretty.</span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</span></strong></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#000000;">I have always been a "girly" girl. Shoes, bags, accessories - it was like working a puzzle. I soon found myself overwhelmed with choices and more than my closet could hold. I also found that having an over abundance of choices makes choosing very difficult. I noticed that I kept reaching for the same few pieces. It finally occured to me that I needed to discard what I didn't wear and keep only those items that I loved and that flatterd. Once you have edited what you have, and kept what you love, you will actually enjoy putting together variations of your favorite pieces. Getting dressed will be fun once again. As you grow more confident with editing and what works for you, you will develop a natural instinct for fashion. Think of the time and money you will save. Now you are ready to set the date, attack your closet and begin your new life of building a fabulous foundation of fashion favorites. Have fun!</span></div><div align="center"><strong><em><span style="font-size:180%;color:#3366ff;">Happy Editing!</span></em></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><em><span style="font-size:180%;color:#3366ff;">~Alisa</span></em></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="color:#3366ff;"></span></strong> </div><div align="center"> </div><div align="center"> </div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-70359883817294900782009-06-06T09:24:00.006-04:002009-06-06T09:46:37.695-04:00Life Lines ~ Your Plans & God's Purpose<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn7kfKEWN1PU9qD-41whNuRdWiRBPg924k5xK1Ocl4EgSo-uHPPKKoB0mk6CTltUCeNI-wsBMXChP975rKc4EdRH52d7AeVyfWEl3lwAOthUt3gYl80jHWowrN5hJh_plftJ2EN3jZIrNJ/s1600-h/%2322+md+tilt.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 220px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5344208350134310290" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgn7kfKEWN1PU9qD-41whNuRdWiRBPg924k5xK1Ocl4EgSo-uHPPKKoB0mk6CTltUCeNI-wsBMXChP975rKc4EdRH52d7AeVyfWEl3lwAOthUt3gYl80jHWowrN5hJh_plftJ2EN3jZIrNJ/s320/%2322+md+tilt.jpg" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-size:130%;">"<em><span style="color:#000099;">To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven..."(Ecclesiastes 3:1)<br /></span></em>God moves on an eternal time table that is not always readily evident to His people. He works within <span style="color:#000099;">seasons</span>, and time frames for <span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff0000;">His own purposes</span>. And yet, He is also a God of the <span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff0000;">suddenly</span>. Don't be surprised when in a certain season,<span style="color:#000099;"> <span style="font-size:180%;">out-of-the-blue</span></span>, comes one of God's <em><span style="color:#ff0000;">suddenly~s</span></em>.<br />When a <em><span style="color:#ff0000;">suddenly</span></em> occurs, it may be a bit of a shock but don't let it take you by surprise. Have you ever jumped into a pool on a summer's day? The cold water is <span style="color:#000099;">shocking</span> but you are not <span style="color:#ff0000;">surprised</span> by it.</span></div><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /><div><br /><em><span style="color:#000099;">"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails." (Proverbs 19:21)</span></em></div><em><span style="color:#000099;"></span></em><br /><div><span style="font-size:180%;">It is right and good to plan.</span> It is necessary for it gives direction and allows you to set priorities. However, yield some <span style="font-size:180%;">white space</span> on your agenda and in your heart for the purpose of God to prevail. This may mean you have to readjust from time to time.</div><br /><div></div><div><em><span style="color:#000099;">"This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit, Says the lord of hosts." (Zechariah 4:6)</span></em></div><em><span style="color:#000099;"></span><br /><div></em>Zerubbabel is representative of a person chosen by God, from whose<em><strong> yielded nature</strong></em> God causes to flow <strong>life</strong>, <strong>leadership</strong>,and <strong>ministry</strong>. </div><br /><div>In this verse,<strong> might</strong> refers to <strong>military strength</strong>, and <strong>power </strong>refers to <strong>one's own ability</strong>. <em>But <strong>spirit</strong> is the <strong>power of the Holy Spirit</strong> in the life of a believer who <strong>yields to the purposes of God</strong>.</em></div><em></em><br /><div><em><span style="color:#000099;">"The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, Like the rivers of water, He turns it wherever He wishes." (Proverbs 21:1)</span></em></div><br /><div>We should never look to physical strength, political power or our own personal ability to carry out God's purpose in His kingdom. At this present time His kingdom is an invisible, spiritual kingdom. Jesus said, "The Kingdom of God is within you. " (Luke 17:21)<br /><strong><em>In this season, at this time, and for His purposes</em></strong> - go forth and <span style="font-family:arial;"><strong>plan</strong></span>, yield to <strong>His prevailing will</strong>, and do it all in the <strong>power of the Holy Spirit</strong>.</div><div> </div><div align="center"><strong>~~~~~~~~~~</strong></span></div><div></div><div><span style="color:#000099;">Are you entering a new season? Can I pray for you? Leave a comment or email me at <a href="mailto:mylifeandstyle@aol.com">mylifeandstyle@aol.com</a>. </span></div><div><em><span style="color:#ff6600;">Interested in hosting a Life & Style conference or inviting Melanie or Alisa to speak at your event, meeting or retreat? Go<a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/"> here</a> for more information.</span></em></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-35751354356268177062009-06-01T15:04:00.013-04:002009-06-01T15:49:43.378-04:00Life Lines ~ The Language of Love<div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEig9eLpLb9mfEXh8lUqFO8H-DYspugimxj-t6XwopfRCH_G2VrZpeYOGp-FE_0I6K2FL4hEr69H4ZPCbtoGi0fmYTys8QXXOsoyUHfABIBPyilfv2so6Gk79baHO6YxDhP7ZUSJSTSoKzWX/s1600-h/mel+and+dan+at+christmas+party.JPG"><em><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 200px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 150px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342444564108420514" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEig9eLpLb9mfEXh8lUqFO8H-DYspugimxj-t6XwopfRCH_G2VrZpeYOGp-FE_0I6K2FL4hEr69H4ZPCbtoGi0fmYTys8QXXOsoyUHfABIBPyilfv2so6Gk79baHO6YxDhP7ZUSJSTSoKzWX/s200/mel+and+dan+at+christmas+party.JPG" /></em></a><em> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">"The Language of Love"</span></em></div><div align="center"><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;"></span></em></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#000099;">(From Melanie's<em> Life & Style</em> topic, "Discover Your Design") </span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#000099;"><em>photo: the love of my life & me</em><br /></div><p></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></span></p><p align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;">~~~~</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;">How do you <strong>express</strong> your love? What <strong>speaks</strong> "love" to you? </span><br /></span><span style="color:#ff6600;"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Dr. Gary Chapman, author of <strong><em>The Five Love Languages</em></strong>, describes "five distinctive languages that people use to express love."</span> </span></p><ul><li><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">Words of Affirmation</span></em></li><br /><li><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">Quality Time</span></em></li><br /><li><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">Receiving Gifts</span></em></li><br /><li><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">Acts of Service</span></em></li><br /><li><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">Physical Touch</span></em></li></ul><p><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;">As I am typing, my husband is washing dishes; <strong>that</strong> speaks love to me! Washing dishes is in the category of </span><span style="color:#ff0000;">Acts of Service. </span><span style="color:#000099;">However, the primary way I <em>love to be loved</em> is through <span style="color:#ff0000;">W</span><span style="color:#ff0000;">ords of Affirmation</span>. So if my husband were telling me the things he appreciates about me <strong>while</strong> washing the dishes, I would be over the moon!</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">In relationships, especially with those who live under our own roof, it strengthens the <em>"love-ship" </em>when we recognize and purposefully speak the love language of our loved ones. Start with your spouse. Do you remember The Adams Family? Whenever Morticia spoke French to her adoring husband, Gomez, he could hardly contain his affection for her! He <span style="color:#ff0000;">loved</span> it when she spoke French. </span></p><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#000099;">Whether you are fluent in a foreign language or only remember, "Donde esta el bano?" from your high school Spanish class, you can be fluent in the love language of the <em>love of <strong>your</strong> life</em>.</span></p><p><span style="color:#000099;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Want to take a quick quiz to determine your love language? Follow the link<span style="color:#ff0000;"> </span></span><a href="http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/30sec.html#love"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff0000;">here</span></a><span style="font-size:130%;">. But don't stop </span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;">there. Ask your husband to take it, too. Then start <em>speaking</em> your love language and with practice you'll be fluent in no time. Ooo la la!</span><span style="color:#ff0000;"> </span></span></p><p><em><span style="color:#ff0000;">Interested in hosting a Life & Style conference? Go </span></em><a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/"><em><span style="color:#ff0000;">here</span></em></a><em><span style="color:#ff0000;"> for more details.</span></em></p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-88709717372208371742009-05-30T09:35:00.012-04:002009-05-30T19:57:25.298-04:00Life Lines ~ Guard Your Heart<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi08mxsY28xky83gN_w7m2DSKxhp4ZEE0I3FRrVKCX_dqnhW3R22FGPQb71g4-bpwfFXnb-F84Cl3PW5ok_bQ4X2XeDxNVaZfl7-afvOOgosIPRHCggiQL9TIAmWoB68FlJYKdhbb2dfiko/s1600-h/mel+in+kitchen+cropped.JPG"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 217px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5341616751930461298" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi08mxsY28xky83gN_w7m2DSKxhp4ZEE0I3FRrVKCX_dqnhW3R22FGPQb71g4-bpwfFXnb-F84Cl3PW5ok_bQ4X2XeDxNVaZfl7-afvOOgosIPRHCggiQL9TIAmWoB68FlJYKdhbb2dfiko/s320/mel+in+kitchen+cropped.JPG" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><em><strong>Guard Your Heart</strong></em></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:85%;color:#ff6600;">(Excerpt from Melanie's Life & Style topic Guard Your Heart)</span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong></strong></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>~~~~~~~<br /></div></strong></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Proverbs 4:23 instructs,<span style="color:#000099;"> </span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;"><em><span style="color:#000099;">“Keep your heart with all diligence for out of it spring the issues of life.”</span><br /></em><span style="font-size:180%;">To <em>keep</em> means to guard, protect and maintain.</span> The first strategy in <em>keeping </em>your heart is to <em>guard </em>your heart. A guard is set in place to protect something of value.<br />Is anything more valuable than your heart—that which represents your <em>inner self</em>?<br /><br />Dr. Caroline Leaf, author of <em><strong>Who Switched Off My Brain?</strong></em> writes, concerning the heart, that science has caught up with the wisdom of Scripture. “Your heart is not just a pump; it also acts like a mini brain.”<br /><br />As we look through Scripture, we often see the heart portrayed as the seat of thinking, emotion, and the dwelling place of the Lord and the Holy Spirit. Proverbs 23:7 records, </span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;"><em><span style="color:#000099;">“For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.”</span><br /></em><br />In Luke 5:22 we read that Jesus perceived the thoughts of men and questioned what they were <em><span style="color:#000099;">"reasoning"</span></em> in their hearts.<br /><br />Jesus said of Himself that He<em> <span style="color:#000099;">“searches the minds and hearts”</span></em> Revelation 2:23.<br /></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;"><span style="color:#000099;"><em>"Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God dwells in you?"</em></span><span style="color:#ff6600;"> I Corinthians 3:16. </span></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#ff6600;"><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">So how do you guard your heart?</span> </span></span><br /><span style="color:#ff6600;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Scripture indicates that by taking our requests to God through prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, the result is peace—the guard of our heart.<br />Philippians 4:6-7<em> </em></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="color:#000099;"><em>“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus."</em><br /></span><br /><span style="font-size:180%;">Anxiety is a sure path to a troubled heart but there is an antidote to anxious thoughts.</span> When fear threatens to hijack your heart and terrorize your thoughts, present your requests to God by means of prayer in an attitude of gratitude. In addition to making your requests, try asking God for a different perspective on the circumstances. Often a shift in viewpoint changes the whole picture!<br />Then, look for ways to be a blessing to someone despite <strong>your </strong>present situation. You don’t have to “have it all together” before you can be a godly influence on another.<br />Finally, give generously in the midst of a trying time. According to “Dr. Mel,”<strong>* </strong>generosity relaxes the tensed muscles and worry lines produced by anxiety.<br />So give! Give a donation, a smile, a kind word, a pan of brownies!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">May the supernatural, impermeable, impenetrable peace of God guard your heart today.</span></span><br /><br /><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>~~~~~<br /></strong></span><span style="color:#ff6600;">Are you in a trying time? Need the peace of God to guard your heart? I'd love to pray for you. Just leave a comment or email me at <a href="mailto:mylifeandstyle@aol.com">mylifeandstyle@aol.com</a>. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;color:#ff6600;"><em>(<strong>*</strong>I'm not a real doctor, I just "play" one at home, thus my family's nickname for me<strong>. ;></strong> )</em></span> </div><div align="center"></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#000099;">Interested in hosting a Life & Style conference? Go <a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/">here</a> for more information.</span></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-86322256333754710302009-05-28T10:40:00.003-04:002009-05-28T11:23:51.163-04:00Style File - Getting Real with Hospitality<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgz3lA3DZirWtHC6f7niQS-bZnlcZlC6HggMOgid7vycakfepUV41Lpupdc3vYJ9z_nB2RXm5fMC3rOlWlelD6TX4sAQ2XYB5Hot0_XAlWOU_GBailDyZiESFi2IlH8mniU7SOlTxgpnTiL/s1600-h/Alisa+straight+on.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5340885128058552882" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 229px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgz3lA3DZirWtHC6f7niQS-bZnlcZlC6HggMOgid7vycakfepUV41Lpupdc3vYJ9z_nB2RXm5fMC3rOlWlelD6TX4sAQ2XYB5Hot0_XAlWOU_GBailDyZiESFi2IlH8mniU7SOlTxgpnTiL/s320/Alisa+straight+on.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><p align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">The Bible teaches us to offer hospitality to others. In Titus, hospitality is one of the qualifications for church leaders. Paul said "He must be hospitable". What does that really mean today? With our lives filled to the brim and running over with so many things to do and responsibilities to fulfill, what and when do we have time to be "hospitable". The Living Bible sheds some light on this verse by saying <span style="color:#ff6600;">"They must enjoy having guests in their home."</span> Do you enjoy having guests in your home? I do! Having been raised in a Pastor's home, I grew up with guests in the house. Looking back on that experience, I believe it is what has made me love extending hospitality to others today. </span></strong></p><p align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">The Bible is full of examples of others practicing hospitality. In verse 13 of Titus, the Living Bible says this, <span style="color:#ff6600;">"When God's children are in need, you be the one to help them out. And get into the habit of inviting guests home for dinner or, if they need lodging, for the night."</span> I think it's pretty clear that God wants us to "practice" offering hospitality to others. Hospitality is very different than entertainment. Entertainment seeks to amuse and divert one from routine. True hospitality seeks to minister to the needs of others.</span></strong></p><p align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Recently, I was talking to a man whose wife has been diagnosed with cancer. She has been going for weekly treatments and he is committed to staying right by her side. Obviously, others things aren't getting done. Like mowing the yard, cooking the meals, cleaning the house and other mundane but necessary chores to keep the home going. He shared with me that he was disappointed because so few of his "brothers and sisters in Christ" have called or offered help. I was mortified! I realized that I could do more! Even though our lives are full and at times hectic, I believe it is imperative that we look for and indeed seek out ways to offer hospitality. Many people won't ask for help but they will accept it if it is offered. I recently heard a Pastor say that <span style="color:#ff6600;">"<em>you are never closer to God than when you offer mercy and a helping hand to someone in need".</em></span> God's heart beats with mercy and compassion. He desires us to be his hands and feet on this earth.</span></strong></p><p align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">When I hear the word <em><span style="color:#ff6600;">hospitality</span></em>, I always think of <em><span style="color:#ff6600;">hospital</span></em>. What goes on in a hospital? Usually sick and injured people come to be restored and made whole again. What an incredible picture that presents for how we can offer up our home to be a place that can restore and offer wholeness to others through Christ Jesus. It is so true that we never know what shoes someone is walking in. They may desperately need someone to just share a meal with them, offer companionship or help carry their burden. My prayer is that we all begin "practicing" hospitality. Quit worrying that your house isn't perfect or you aren't a gourmet cook. </span><span style="color:#ff6600;">Just extend the invitation and be yourself! Let God do the rest! His ability outshines ours every time!</span></strong></p><p align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;"><span style="color:#339999;">From the Life & Style Session</span> <em>"Inspired Living".</em> <span style="color:#339999;">Do you have a story to tell about a time when someone offered hospitality to you when you needed it the most? I'd love to hear your story. Comment or e-mail me at</span> <a href="mailto:mylifeandstyle@aol.com"><em>mylifeandstyle@aol.com</em></a><span style="color:#339999;">. </span><em> <span style="color:#339999;">Until I see you again,</span></em></span></strong></p><p align="center"><strong><em><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">Happy Hosting!</span></em></strong></p><p align="center"><strong><em><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">~Alisa</span></em></strong></p><p> </p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-67937195605409483312009-05-26T15:49:00.009-04:002009-05-26T18:42:25.928-04:00Life Lines ~ A Praising Woman Influences<div align="center"><span style="color:#ff6600;"><strong>"</strong></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLYUkLJxPWf0oA45RyXcM_KAcCAbY-e5e6wqgn4MIajHTG0GMo6mPNsXzFvtYRat41LtWZo86KO3mcrh53eA-jX2q8t5t0HVyVK_dk1JskjVWCHCQ2rwhSr6_ZA7tNgTyPM5AsoCvQdrYX/s1600-h/%234md+crop+bw.jpg"><strong><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 211px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5340222582543846754" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhLYUkLJxPWf0oA45RyXcM_KAcCAbY-e5e6wqgn4MIajHTG0GMo6mPNsXzFvtYRat41LtWZo86KO3mcrh53eA-jX2q8t5t0HVyVK_dk1JskjVWCHCQ2rwhSr6_ZA7tNgTyPM5AsoCvQdrYX/s320/%234md+crop+bw.jpg" /></strong></a><strong> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">A Praising Woman Influences"</span></strong></div><div align="center">(from Melanie's Life Topic EVEry Woman Influences)<br /></div><p><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>Recently I heard that a woman I am acquainted with lost her teaching job ~ a job she was very good at. (I know because she taught my daughter.) The news hit her hard and out of the blue, and yet the same day I heard of her loss I marveled at her response. It was a Sunday morning and after hearing the news I watched as she lifted her hands in praise to God. Perhaps it was a sacrifice of praise I witnessed. Nevertheless I was blessed to see her praise God with the same passion week after week. </strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>Her passionate response of praise influenced me and I rejoiced with her. In the midst of a trying time her praise <em>sparked</em> <em>the praise</em> in me. Praise because I have also been in trying times and yet have come out to wide open places with greener pastures. Praise because of the realization that although we cannot see around corners, God sees the end from the beginning. Praise because it is a sure pathway to the throne of God.</strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong></strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>This <em>praising woman </em>unreservedly<em> </em>revealed her heart to all who would see. In the <em>lean</em> times or the <em>mean</em> times there is always a<em> meanwhile.</em> What will you do in your <em>meanwhile</em>? Will you offer praise to God? Or will you give Him the silent treatment? </strong></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>A praising woman may never know whose life she influences. But there is always someone watching. So...influence for good!</strong></span> </p><p><span style="color:#000066;"><em>Do you have a specific reason to praise God today? Do tell. You just may spark a praise in someone else today!</em><br /></span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#3333ff;"><em>Interested in hosting a Life & Style conference, go<a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/2009/03/birth-of-new-womens-ministry.html"> here</a> for more information.</em></span> </p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-57720975549131726792009-05-20T19:05:00.010-04:002009-05-21T07:12:52.236-04:00Style File - Fashion vs. Style<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlyWQl_Ky6c7x6heohZD8C6nJjDJarSTLYOGX7yB7nja1XKd7lZhYnkU5AVQR_F9SpneJ-DXH4wbFs-THk9DO6mwtKBOFLmyBPDE6xY4-A43mjZRsb_0zlW2_iUBhFJP5bRd-5PUVAbNIg/s1600-h/Alisa+Tilt+right.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 213px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338051695241148706" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhlyWQl_Ky6c7x6heohZD8C6nJjDJarSTLYOGX7yB7nja1XKd7lZhYnkU5AVQR_F9SpneJ-DXH4wbFs-THk9DO6mwtKBOFLmyBPDE6xY4-A43mjZRsb_0zlW2_iUBhFJP5bRd-5PUVAbNIg/s320/Alisa+Tilt+right.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#336666;"><span style="color:#339999;">Coco Chanel once said, "Fashion fades, style is eternal.</span>"</span></strong> I rather like that. Year after year, all the designers come to the big city fashion shows with their version of what we ladies should wear for the up coming season. Frankly, I wonder sometimes at the concoctions those models flaunt down the catwalk. Do designers really expect that the average woman, working 9 to 5 or caring for her children and home, is really going to wear some of the outfits they send down the runway? I'm convinced not. Regardless of the trend, "skin is not in"! I was recently reading a book about how NOT to be a fashion victim. The author was quite humorous in her definition of a FV. I began to take note. Here are her three red flags: (1)the "IT" bag, (2) the number of brand name or designer lables she is wearing, (3) note how many of her clothing choices were inspired by the season's trends. I'm not discouraging you from buying this year's trendy, new styles and colors but your entire ensemble shouldn't be made up of this season's hottest "must-haves". </div><br /><div align="justify">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</div><br /><div align="justify">Most of us girls like to look good. If we look good, it helps to make us feel good. Now, I'm not saying that it's all about outward appearance, no, I know that real beauty comes from within. What I am saying is that STYLE is a language and each time we get dressed we are sending a message to the whole world about who we are and what we believe. Thus, my topic today - <strong><span style="color:#339999;">Fashion vs. Style</span></strong>.</div><br /><div align="justify">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</div><br /><div align="justify">What is style? How can you define it? I am not sure I can answer those questions but I believe we all know it when we see it. Over the years I've come to learn that true style is timeless. I've also discovered that truly stylish women have some basics in common. Here's the short list:</div><br /><ol><br /><li>She only buys what flatters her figure and complements her coloring. In other words, she knows how to pass on the bargain and keep only those things that make her look good.</li><br /><li>She understands the importance of buying the quality pieces that will never go out of style such as the Little Black Dress or the perfectly tailored jacket. These become the "foundation" of her wardrobe.</li><br /><li>She knows what pieces to splurge on. These pieces will add panache to her basics and remain timeless season after season.</li><br /><li>She understands that SHOES and BAGS make the outfit.</li><br /><li>She knows how to add DRAMA with accessories.</li><br /><li>She understands how to mix and match, creating new ensembles on a whim.</li><br /><li>She realizes that style ISN'T about the money.</li><br /><li>She knows how NOT to be the victim of this year's trends.</li><br /><li>She is comfortable knowing that everyday is not a photo shoot.</li><br /><li>And MOST importantly, she understands that the FIT rather than the size or label is EVERYTHING!</li></ol><br /><p>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</p><p>Each Wednesday I will begin posting a detailed entry for each of these basics starting next week. If you would like to know more about Life and Style by God's Design or to schedule us for your next ladies event, <a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/2009_03_01_archive.html">go here</a>.</p>Until I see you again,<br /><br /><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><em>Dress for Success!</em></span></strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><em>~Alisa</em></span></strong><br /></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-83535539801785161232009-05-19T18:51:00.011-04:002009-05-20T07:00:35.231-04:00Life Lines ~ "A Woman's Woman"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2Go5_cvZ_4sxTcYpKsBQqn9Z-R3tW0yZi-Muy6eboksezCuYTGJWKa816AE54aL10rCuCx4cf_p0O3Y9xLF5xPQGTIc5BWU4Fh_KMvt8D6VKG-TvSlloOr6BRmzDGjYNe9JhyphenhyphenY79UDYAo/s1600-h/%2316+md.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 224px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337678822452943410" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj2Go5_cvZ_4sxTcYpKsBQqn9Z-R3tW0yZi-Muy6eboksezCuYTGJWKa816AE54aL10rCuCx4cf_p0O3Y9xLF5xPQGTIc5BWU4Fh_KMvt8D6VKG-TvSlloOr6BRmzDGjYNe9JhyphenhyphenY79UDYAo/s320/%2316+md.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#339999;"><em><strong>"A Woman's Woman"</strong></em></span></div><br /><br /><div align="center"><em><span style="color:#339999;">(from Melanie's Life topic "EVEry Woman Influences")</span></em></div><div align="left"><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Sometimes our influence is felt more by what we <em>don't </em>say, what we <em>don't</em> do. In my role, I have often been a <em>listening ear</em> to those who would unburden themselves. I consider that a high and holy privilege. When someone chooses to be vulnerable and confide in you, it is of utmost importance that you discipline yourself to hold that confidence in trust. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">You've heard the phrase, "a man's man." It's often used to describe the kind of man other men enjoy being around. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">I want to be "a woman's woman." The kind of woman who protects and covers the "sisters." The kind of woman who keeps confidences close to the heart. The kind of woman who refuses to participate in gossip, foolish talk and vulgarities. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">When you build up, refusing to knock down (no matter how subtly) you are a "woman's woman." When you encourage the giftings and abilities of other women, you are a "woman's woman." When you <em>share</em> good news,<em> </em>good opportunities, a good shoe sale or a good recipe, you are a "woman's woman."</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">In the <strong><span style="color:#339999;"><em>Life & Style</em> By God's Design</span></strong> women's conferences, I visit the lives of influential women throughout the Bible. I'd love to have your company on the journey as we discover how to be a woman of influence! </span><br /><br /><strong><span style="color:#339999;"><span style="font-size:130%;">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</span></span></strong><br /><span style="font-size:130%;">Interested in hosting a <span style="color:#339999;"><strong><em>Life & Style</em> By God's Design</strong></span> conference? Go<a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/2009/03/birth-of-new-womens-ministry.html"> here</a> for more information.</span></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-67530258291111611762009-05-18T16:09:00.006-04:002009-05-18T17:23:48.233-04:00Style File - Discover Your Design<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-Pm02Fmcs8hrzpY0UVC4bWgwsNqDi6p6nsPyYcUj9d3YKCQhw3gwoXPGMaXvDMcpTSQ7JDJYx5Cssv8z3Qctbq6Wxess7U-Z6T_H8CdVYfalztVJvILYHxNFFeuItzNelfvaJLMgh-9Ae/s1600-h/Alisa+Tilt+left.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337259149842566258" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 133px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 200px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-Pm02Fmcs8hrzpY0UVC4bWgwsNqDi6p6nsPyYcUj9d3YKCQhw3gwoXPGMaXvDMcpTSQ7JDJYx5Cssv8z3Qctbq6Wxess7U-Z6T_H8CdVYfalztVJvILYHxNFFeuItzNelfvaJLMgh-9Ae/s200/Alisa+Tilt+left.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div align="justify"><strong><span style="color:#339999;">I want my home to be nice. I want it to be comfortable but most of all I want it to reflect who I am and what's important to me. In other words - I want my home to reflect my personal style. For many of us ladies, we struggle to define our personal style. I know that I find myself frequently falling in love with several different styles, colors and trends. My husband tells me that my favorite color is the one I'm having painted on the wall at that moment usually by him. LOL! Oh, there is some truth to that statement! I believe our homes should be a haven. What defines that haven for you will be different than what defines that for me.</span></strong> </div><div align="left"></div><br /><div align="center">To help you in discovering your design, I will outline 5 decor styles that I present in my <span style="color:#339999;"><strong><em>Style Session - Discover Your Design</em></strong>.</span></div><br /><ul><li><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Classic - Your look is clearly traditional</span>.</strong> You are inspired by historic homes and European aesthetics. Chippendale, Queen Anne, and Empire-style furniture in rich wood tones like cherry and mahogany naturally draw you in. You appreciate the quality of fine furnishings and fill your home with family heirlooms and antiques. Timeless color schemes such as blue and white with splashes of yellow or spring green with pink warm the interiors of your home making it comfortable and personally yours.</li><li><span style="color:#339999;"><strong>Country or Cottage - You are drawn to comfortable spaces with timeless appeal</strong>.</span> Your idea of the perfect room is well-worn furnishings that invite you to put your feet up! Your rooms aren't fussy or stuffy but warm, cozy and inviting. Preferred colors are rich cream, tan, combos like red, white and blue, and colors inspired by the great outdoors. Slipcovered or painted furniture is right up your alley.</li><li><span style="color:#339999;"><strong>Contemporary - Open interiors and carefully edited surroundings speak to you</strong>.</span> Unlike the classic style that finds beauty in layers of color and pattern, you crave sleek lines and simple profiles. Large doses of white (and every variation thereof) is liberally applied to walls. You add color by displaying important pieces of art or photography. Paintings are usually simple but sophisticated. Furniture is functional and clean. Every item has a purpose and every item has a place.</li><li><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Chic - You've got style and you like to show it!</span></strong> The lastest fashions find there way to your closet and the most up to date home decor finds its way to your rooms. Just like the Little Black Dress is your choice time after time, you like to start with the basics - a classic sofa that can be jazzed up on a whim with the trendiest shades of decorative pillows or throws - then add show-stopping accessories. You're not afraid of color and you take your cues from the fashion runway. You have a natural eye for mixing and matching. You know where to spend your money and where to invest in timeless style.</li><li><strong><span style="color:#339999;">Cultural - You love stylish spaces that overflow with exotic collections</span>.</strong> You are drawn to far away places and love to travel or learn about the cultures of countries around the world. You choose colors that lean toward spicy, sophisticated tones, such as red, yellow, orange and brown. Earthy colors and ethnic accents define your personal style.</li></ul><p>God has uniquely positioned us ladies to provide for our family's comfort and home life. We instinctively want to add color, softness and beauty to our surroundings. If you are interested in Discovering Your Design, I'd love to hear from you. E-mail me at <a href="mailto:MyLifeandStyle@aol.com">MyLifeandStyle@aol.com</a> with your questions or comments. To learn more about<span style="font-family:georgia;color:#ff6600;"><strong><em> <a href="http://lifeandstylebydesign.blogspot.com/2009_03_01_archive.html">Life and Style by God's Design</a>,</em></strong> <span style="color:#000000;">follow the link</span></span><span style="color:#000000;">.</span></p><p align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><em>Happy Decorating!</em></span></strong></p><p align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><em>~Alisa</em></span></strong></p><p></p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-27657343061735969102009-05-15T09:41:00.008-04:002009-05-15T15:39:44.865-04:00Life Lines ~ Think About It!<div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGjS3vXrRuVQwnGfjXdZ1P4zu7CPqzGOKSP62vhaXPPjRBiaRPkhdeT7tCzn2hBGnyQO7yHQCZ56ld6laFAOQZGLvVkd0wtHQcYjAI3o-XWLP4f0HKaNukA7KM3pm_i7TRrxyesOsFwDJg/s1600-h/mel+cropped+in+studio.JPG"><em><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 242px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336059689634352898" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGjS3vXrRuVQwnGfjXdZ1P4zu7CPqzGOKSP62vhaXPPjRBiaRPkhdeT7tCzn2hBGnyQO7yHQCZ56ld6laFAOQZGLvVkd0wtHQcYjAI3o-XWLP4f0HKaNukA7KM3pm_i7TRrxyesOsFwDJg/s320/mel+cropped+in+studio.JPG" /></em></a><em> <span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>Think About It!</strong></span></em></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff6600;">by </span></div><div align="center"><span style="color:#ff6600;">Melanie Dorsey</span></div><p align="left"><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">It delights me when science catches up with the Bible! Many would agree that positive thinking is beneficial. I would add not only is it beneficial, it is <span style="color:#3333ff;">necessary</span> for ultimate health ~ spirit, soul and body!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Philippians 4:8 instructs us to "meditate on things that are of value and praiseworthy." Meditating is more than thinking, however. Meditating carries with it the idea of <em>reflecting, muttering, pondering</em> even <em>sighing</em>. That kind of "focused thinking" affects not only how our brains operate but is directly linked to all other functions of the body. Dr. Caroline Leaf, author of <em>Who Switched Off My Brain?,</em> writes, <span style="color:#3333ff;">"What you think and feel prompts your hypothalamus to begin a series of chemical secretions that change the way you function...The hypothalamus gland is actually the facilitator and originator of emotions in response to life circumstances, such as fear, anxiety, stress, tension, panic attacks, phobia, rage, anger and aggression."</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Psalm 1 tells us how to live a blessed life ~ meditate on God's Word day and night!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">How is that possible? By filling your mind with God's Word, you filter every thought through God's Word. <em>Reject</em> thinking that is ungodly and that which does not reflect the principles of Scripture. <em>Accept</em> thinking<em> </em>that is in line with God's truths. Your thoughts impact your life because they are intricately linked with your </span><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">emotions, attitudes and actions.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Dr. Leaf writes, <span style="color:#3333ff;">"...the mind is a battleground, with ongoing conflict between toxic thoughts and good thoughts, thoughts that serve your mental and physical health well and thoughts that deplete your body and mind of health."</span></span> </p><p align="left"><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">So serve yourself well today ~ meditate on those things that are true, noble, just, pure lovely, of good report, virtuous and praiseworthy! Do it for your mind, soul and body. It's a <span style="font-size:180%;"><strong>noble thing</strong></span>.</span><br /><span style="font-size:130%;color:#333333;">(From the <em>Life & Style</em> topic, <strong>"Noble Things."</strong>)</span> </p>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4248915625355391615.post-23443686856666569762009-03-03T12:51:00.008-05:002009-05-19T19:28:23.341-04:00Life Lines & Style File<div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#339999;"><strong><em>Life & Style</em></strong></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;"><strong>By God's Design</strong></span></div><br /><div align="center">~~~~~~~</div><br /><div align="center"><em><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#339999;">Inspiring women to live and style their lives in grace and beauty.</span></strong></em></div><br /><br /><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxQ1hlkNRbBIq1dpwl6DzYUP_2cfvaaG1oZETtG5TQuCFSWc3n3aJvbxSzUJ40g0CfBm4FESx1QFFrSXJ2N-h8PXNCu0pc2Xd6AA9g0qsD2hlJm9Pz2ZnO-UX9ZiRAiad2OCFQg93vc7GZ/s1600-h/Alisa+n+Mel+030.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 288px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326530068678998370" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhxQ1hlkNRbBIq1dpwl6DzYUP_2cfvaaG1oZETtG5TQuCFSWc3n3aJvbxSzUJ40g0CfBm4FESx1QFFrSXJ2N-h8PXNCu0pc2Xd6AA9g0qsD2hlJm9Pz2ZnO-UX9ZiRAiad2OCFQg93vc7GZ/s400/Alisa+n+Mel+030.jpg" /></a><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;"><strong> Melanie Dorsey</strong></span></div><br /><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#339999;">Speaker, Teacher, Writer</span></strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong>For a "little of this" and a "dash of that," visit my personal blog, <a href="http://bellamella-melanie.blogspot.com/">BellaMella-Melanie.blogspot.com</a>.</strong></div><div align="center"><strong>For Bible teaching, go here: <a href="http://dotellmel.blogspot.com/">DoTellMel.blogspot.com</a>. </strong></div><br /><div align="center"><strong><br /></div></strong><br /><div align="center"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGvFwcdKqaciyzX7sCWFq8l-lfx41Qo-Q3E1SaKzzybQCxXY3TtfS9VSCSUANLB7YpSPtkOJ4vZJ-iaWC00GXvhrPny4t29K7sJbGCN-Pbr6OuSkaAH8NjPtfI_pCtym-Lnxk-aizjava5/s1600-h/Alisa+n+Mel+022.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 286px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326530066665982930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGvFwcdKqaciyzX7sCWFq8l-lfx41Qo-Q3E1SaKzzybQCxXY3TtfS9VSCSUANLB7YpSPtkOJ4vZJ-iaWC00GXvhrPny4t29K7sJbGCN-Pbr6OuSkaAH8NjPtfI_pCtym-Lnxk-aizjava5/s400/Alisa+n+Mel+022.jpg" /></a><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>Alisa Lucas-Brown</strong></span></div><br /><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#339999;">Designer and Style Coach</span></strong> </div><br /><div align="center"><strong>For do-able decor, inspiring ideas and lifestyle tips, visit my blog</strong></div><br /><div align="center"><a href="http://carolinapanache.blogspot.com/"><strong>CarolinaPanache.blogspot.com</strong></a><strong><br /></strong></div><div align="center">~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br />Life sessions consist of in-depth Bible teaching and speak to the spirit of a woman. Style sessions target a woman's heart through enhancing her home, her family and herself. <strong><span style="color:#339999;"><em>Life and Style</em></span></strong> <strong>By God's Design</strong> offers real-life solutions for today's woman and home. </div><div align="center">~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~<br /><em><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#339999;"><strong>We believe the woman is the heart of the home and the home </strong></span></em><em><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#339999;"><strong>centers the family. Inspired women change homes. </strong></span></em><em><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#339999;"><strong>Changed homes inspire and influence nations.</strong></span></em></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:180%;color:#000000;"><strong><em>~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ </em></strong></span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>Life & Style Sessions </strong></span></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ </span></div><div align="left"><em><strong><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">D</span>iscover Your Design</span></strong></em></div><br /><div align="left">In <em>Discover Your Design for Life</em>, <strong>Melanie </strong>helps you understand “why you say what you say and do what you do” by identifying your personality type and motivational gifts. </div><div align="left">Melanie coaches you in how to live in your strength zone while getting real about your weaknesses. </div><br /><div align="left">Every family has a unique personality and every home should, too. In <em><span style="font-size:130%;">Discover Your Design for Style</span></em>, <strong>Alisa</strong> helps you identify your design & décor personality. As she coaches you in the tips and tricks of do-able décor, you’ll be inspired to create your own beautiful haven in the midst of a busy world.</div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~~~~~</span></div><div align="left"><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;"><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">E</span>VEry Woman Influences</span></em></strong></div><br /><div align="justify">From Eve to every woman, we feminine creatures are uniquely designed with relationship in mind. <strong>Melanie</strong> believes a woman’s influence is found in her relationships. Take a page from the lives of the most influential women of the Bible and discover how you can influence others for good!</div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~~~~~</span></div><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">S</span>tyle File</strong></em></span></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;">Who says modest and modern don’t mix? Learn what to wear to accentuate the positive. And while you may not be able to eliminate the negative, you can learn how to camouflage it! Style coach, <strong>Alisa</strong>, helps you put your best fashion foot forward.</span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~~~~~</span></div><div align="left"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">I</span>nspired Living</strong></span></em></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;">As the heart of your home, you are uniquely positioned to inspire your family to put God first and prefer others. Catch the call to create an environment in which the biblical principles of hospitality are a delight rather than a dread. Discover inspiring ways to minister to the practical and relational needs of others.</span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~~~~~</span></div><div align="left"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">G</span>uard Your Heart</strong></span></em></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;">"Keep your heart with all diligence for out of it spring the issues of life." To keep is to guard, protect and maintain. Got some issues? Learn the “art” to guarding your “heart” and keep yours healthy, happy and whole! </span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~~~~~</span></div><div align="left"><em><span style="font-size:130%;"><strong><span style="font-size:180%;color:#ff6600;">N</span>oble Things</strong></span></em></div><br /><div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;">So what do <em>you</em> think? Are your thoughts centered on what is true, noble and lovely? Philippians 4:8 instructs us to meditate on those things which are of value and praiseworthy. <strong>Alisa and Melanie</strong>, your Life & Style Coaches, are always on the lookout for the good stuff! And that’s a noble thing.</span> </div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:180%;">~~~~~~~</span></div><br /><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color:#000000;">Melanie and Alisa are available for Women's Conferences, Retreats, and Single-day Women's Ministry events. For booking information contact them at:</span></span></div><div align="center"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><strong><em><a href="mailto:mylifeandstyle@aol.com">mylifeandstyle@aol.com</a></em></strong></div><br /><div align="center">April 20th, Alisa and Melanie were guests of the Christian Television Network program, HomeKeepers with host Arthelene Rippy. Alisa featured a casual spring tablescape while Melanie prepared Vineyard Chicken Salad, the perfect accompaniment for alfresco hospitality. Together Melanie and Alisa offer inspiration and encouragement to women to pursue their potential, develop their creativity and embrace their place as the heart of the home.<br /></div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~</strong></span></div><div align="center"><strong><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"><em>Life Lines "Know Yourself"</em></span></strong></div><div align="center"><strong><em><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;"></span></em></strong></div><div align="left"><span style="font-size:130%;color:#ff6600;">Do you know who you are? If you are a born again believer in Christ, then you know <em><strong>whose</strong></em> you are, but do you really know <strong><em>who</em></strong> you are?<br />Knowing your personality type, for example, is helpful in understanding why <em>you say what you say and do what you do</em>. There are four basic personality types which were observed and recorded by Hippocrates (450 B.C.): choleric, sanguine, phlegmatic and melancholy. I like the terms attributed to each by Florence Littauer: choleric – “power,”<br />sanguine – “popular,” phlegmatic – “peaceful” and melancholy – “perfect.”<br />While these basic types help our understanding of personalities, they should not be used to pigeon-hole yourself nor anyone you know. Most people are a mix of the types with one being dominant.<br /><br />Another aspect of who you are is the spiritual gift or motivational gift in which God has endued you. These can be found in Romans 12:6-8.<br />You also have a love language which is how you prefer to receive love and how you most likely extend love.<br />And then there is your birth order. Did you know most presidents have been <em>first borns</em> while most politicians are <em>middle children</em> and the majority of successful sales people are the<em> baby</em> of the family?<br /><br />While you may know another person who shares your dominant personality type, has a similar motivational gift and is in the same birth order as you, that person will not be a replica of you! <strong>You are unique</strong>. And no one can do a better job at being <em>you</em> <strong>than you</strong>!<br />So, be the <strong><span style="font-size:180%;">best version</span></strong> of yourself you can possibly be. You’ll be happier for it and so will everyone who knows you. </span></div><div align="left"><span style="color:#ff6600;"></span></div><div align="left">(From the <em>Life & Style</em> topic, <em>Discover Your Design</em> by Melanie Dorsey.)</div><div align="center"><span style="font-size:130%;"></span></span></div>Melanie and Alisahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11550240169229094304noreply@blogger.com5